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Model trains were one way my dad tried bonding with me and my two brothers, and they were also a way for him to isolate himself from us. My grandmother would routinely trash my father's possessions when he was young, stuff like baseball cards and comic books, so I suppose the psychological profile writes itself. He'd gift trains, collect them, even build them with X-Acto and balsa alone in the kitchen; he'd subscribe to relevant magazines he'd read in his bathroom; he'd take us to conventions and hobby stores I found confusing and dull. While we all liked trains, only one of us caught the bug. (That brother is a pilot for famous people now and once bonded with Rod Stewart on the subject.)

Lego was MY toy: modern, plastic, primary-colored. It has such a privileged position in my brain I've been dreaming about finding discontinued sets in stores since the 1980s. (I always wake up before I can get to the cash register.) Still, the little dramas of childhood mastery over the world that Lego enables has to be much like those my dad enacted with trains. It may even be an inheritance.

"They were never cheap, but they are now—sixty years later—luxury goods, kept out of reach": Looking at the prices on the Lionel website...good God. Even fragrance is more budget-friendly. Glad I stuck with Lego. "The length of track did not matter": I never had that level of equanimity as a child. With so many toys, Lego included, I was always acutely aware that whatever I had, it could always be bigger and gnarlier and just plain MORE were it not for the upper limit of what my parents would tolerate buying. Of course by the time I could spend my own money on expensive hobbies, those totalist fantasies had long ceased to be interesting.

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Neva's avatar

Thanks for the lovely remembrance. I am old enough to remember the toy trains and the magic they carried for us when we were children.

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