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Carla's avatar

I enjoyed this, being in my mid-40โ€™s and all that that entails. It also made me think of Hemingway going bankrupt gradually and then suddenly.

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thesmellofhoneysuckle's avatar

Ooohโ€ฆ these are the most comforting, and elegant, words of wisdom I heard in weeks. Months. Maybe more. I knew I was not wrong calling you โ€˜maestroโ€™ (then I canโ€™t stand Ruade, but never had a maestro I always agreed with). By the way, my one and only personal question. I guess your family name is Italian. Where the accent? (to mention you correctly in conversations) :)

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Luca Turin ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡บ's avatar

My family name is Valdese (Waldensian) and pronounced as in French, or more exactly Franco-Provenรงal. โ€œCome Torino in Franceseโ€. And yes, I am Italian!

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Daniel Perera ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡น's avatar

As someone who thinks about progress and cultural change a lot, this is a novel perspective. And as a guy going through his midlife crisis โ€”mobilizing lots of (futile?) energy towards nutrition, exercise, and all manner of rejuvenating techniquesโ€”, itโ€™s kind of unnerving. Iโ€™m used to thinking of complex change (including aging) as a gradual process. Youโ€™ve got me to start the week thinking on this flickering, hesitant, electrical-current model. Thanks.

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LeavesOfGrasse's avatar

Never thought of it that way, but I am glad you did. Very inspiring, thank you.

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Sofie's avatar

This is so very true! Thank you for putting it so clearly: an inspiration for an not so easy day to come.

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Barry Richards's avatar

Thumbs up

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Patrick Snook's avatar

A lovely metaphor indeed! And you finish with beautiful tune. Bravo!

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Charlotte's avatar

So true.

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Bas's avatar

Beautiful

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From Rome to London's avatar

So well put.

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Catherina Willis's avatar

A bit like with a kalรฉidoscope. Your words are clear and food for thought. Merci.

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Vincent's avatar

Brilliantly put. I think I've always felt this way without knowing it!

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ฮฎฮฒฮท's avatar

thanks for this

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